Dating signs hes not into you
Sign he’s just not into you: He won’t make plans in advance.Sure, it might be a little much to expect your new boyfriend to commit to a weekend getaway nine months in the future, but if he’s hesitant to agree to dinner next weekend or a friend’s wedding next month, he’s probably not invested in the relationship.If he’s “keeping his options open,” then you’re not his priority.If he’s into you, he won’t have a problem adding a few future dates into his calendar.Yes, he might have the grossest roommate ever and he’s just trying to protect you from rabies or something, but even gross roommates are worth meeting at some point — and hopefully even leave the apartment on occasion.
Does he tell the same stories over and over, so disconnected from conversation that he’s not even listening to himself?
Don’t become his booty call, his backup plan for when cooler plans fall through, and don’t settle for the less-than-prime hours of the day.
If he’s into you, he’ll prioritize you at an hour that doesn’t inconvenience you or make you feel insecure.
Sign he’s just not into you: It’s always your house or his, never both.
If you’ve never been invited to his place, he’s keeping you at arm’s length for a reason.